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Why Positivity Is Necessary as an Entrepreneur

Melyssa Griffin

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When I first started my design business, I was still working part-time as an English teacher with no real intentions to up and quit my job. Though teaching had long lost its luster to me, I was a drone for the paycheck and couldn’t quite bring myself to quit. I saw a few other bloggers offer their design services to the online community and figured I’d give it a go, never once assuming I’d make a living from graphic design any time soon (read: ever). I even remember one dinner with my then-boyfriend, Keiji, where I excitedly told him that I had made one-hundred dollars from designing! I was like a little kid on Christmas. “They like me! They really like me!”

That moment defined how I continue to run my business.

Because as an entrepreneur, all of a sudden you’ll have emails coming out of your ears.

And days when your New Client Well has run Sahara Desert Dry and you’re left to wonder if you’ll ever get another customer.

And even though most of your customers are the kind of people you’d want to invite to Christmas Dinner, there will always be a couple Scrooges that make you re-think if you’re really cut out for the business world (or any world).

You may find yourself alone much of the time, always huddled under a desk lamp and a computer — or wherever else you like to come alive.

But if you run your business with gratitude, everything else will start to fade.

Because sure, there are icky parts to this gig that sometimes last longer than you wish they would — like your drunk uncle singing Celine Dion on Thanksgiving (shudder), but if you take a moment to breathe it all in, you might find a wonderful amount of beauty in business. Your long, tired nights will be met with a morning of the happiest client emails you’ve ever read. Your Jacquelyn-of-All-Trades job title might mean that your business cards are a hot mess, but that you have all the skills you need to run a successful company. You may not always have clients begging you to work for them, but just as soon as you’re ready to throw in the towel, your inbox will fill with hoards of new requests (happens every time).

Bottom line, running a business won’t always be a pretty job, but if you’re grateful for the small successes, it sure will be a beautiful one. And hey, you might even make a hundred dollars. 🙂

How do YOU stay positive about work?

  1. Chelsea says:

    Yes, yes, and yes. Love this!

  2. Wow, what a write-up! Thank you SO much, Melyssa!

  3. Awesomely Over-Zealous says:

    I actually really enjoy my job – so staying positive isn’t hard. When I have clients that attempt to be a pain up my butt I usually complain to my coworkers and it helps me calm down and explain things in a way they’ll understand. It also helps that it’s 15 minutes from my house, and I have the ideal schedule allowing me to pick up my son and spend time with him, and I get one work from home day giving me a mini “break” in the week. Honestly, it’s hard NOT to be positive under those circumstances but I’m very lucky and i appreciate that everyday at work. Happy Friday Mel! -Iva

  4. What a great lesson! I think that positivity is crucial in ANY situation and I’m glad to have you around if I ever decide to join the freelance world myself 🙂 keep kicking ass, Mel!

  5. Chelsea Ward says:

    Fantastic advice as always Melyssa! It really is true that as soon as things get slow and, more people come knocking. It always seems to be right when you need it. When I’m feeling pretty crappy, sometimes I’ll re-read a particularly happy thank you email from a client. It reminds me of how satisfied and happy I felt at the end of the project and what I’m working towards again. (plus the mini ego boost gets me pumped again!)

  6. Zobia says:

    Great post! I often find myself to be “throwing in the towel” when it comes to my design business. I’m a beginner in web design and haven’t quite found my distinctive style yet and when I feel that I can no longer find one, I give up and then the most magical thing happens, I receive an e-mail from a new client!

  7. I couldn’t agree with you more about this, Mel. When I had first start a photography business while still in college, I was on one giant emotional roller coaster. From clients who were unhappy with prints at times to a client’s child who knocked down and broke a $500 piece of equipment, there were a lot of times that I thought about giving up. But eventually, I did learn to be grateful for what I had and what I was accomplishing, especially when all of my friends were out partying and I was at home editing.

    I’ve been feeling some of those same stressful feelings lately while starting my blog, but hindsight is 20/20 and that’s really helping me through. So thanks for reminding me that it’s not always bad and there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. We just have to choose to see it and always be working toward getting there.

  8. This is such an inspiring post Mel. I’m in a bit of a lull with Brass Honey right now. I’ve only been at this for 5 months so I’m not exactly sure what to expect. Month four was like a dream (great events, I made my first dollar blogging), This last month has been as you put it, like the Sahara dessert. I’m waiting for the wind to shift directions, I’m hopeful that it will, but I don’t know yet because this is still so new. Until then I’ll just keep on keeping on.

    Cheers,
    Shannon
    http://www.brasshoney.blogspot.com

    • I totally know what you mean, especially about not knowing if this is permanent or not since you’re still in the beginning stages. I think I’ve come to find that if you just work your butt off, good things happen in time. You got this, Shannon! Best of luck this year 🙂

  9. Angel Y. says:

    This is such a fantastic read! I truly enjoy engaging in conversations with entrepreneurs who enjoy their lives and what they do. It really helps define your success and help you reach your goals.

  10. Stacia says:

    I haven’t made the complete jump to working for myself full time, but I love listing 3 good things that happened at the end of every day. Then, when I get up the next day, those 3 things from the day before are some of the first things I see. It helps me keep encouraged and remember even the smallest victories, because some days that’s all I have.

  11. Beka Johnson says:

    This is great, Melyssa. I think this is true even in the blogging world. I don’t own my own business (currently living the trophy wife status for a bit…) but even in blogging it can get frustrating and a dose of positivity can make all the difference.

  12. Jessa Olson says:

    I love this post.. What a great reminder to be in.

  13. Stephanie F says:

    I definitely appreciate your positivity 🙂

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