
My trying to share financial advice with me, my dad often mentions one of his friends — a self-made multi-millionaire. He usually brings up one moment he had with this friend, wherein he asked him a simple question over dinner: “How did you become so wealthy? What’s your secret?” His friend’s response was surprisingly simple and modest: “I’ve always stayed out of debt.”
Today, I want to share nine tips I’ve learned throughout my life about how I stay out of debt, build my credit score, and save money. Of course, everyone’s situation is different, but I hope some of these tips can be helpful for you, too.
1. If you can do it, pay premiums months or a year in advance.
When I moved back from Japan, I had to set up all kinds of things: car insurance, a cell phone, housing, utilities, even pet insurance. When combined together, they equalled a pretty hefty monthly bill. To cut down on my monthly expenses, I paid a few of my otherwise monthly premiums a year in advance. Even now, if I have a good month financially, I sometimes pay certain bills a couple months in advance. I do this because it means that more and more of my future income is mine to keep, which is especially useful if any emergencies occur, which would otherwise set me back financially.
2. Build your credit (but don’t abuse it).
Some people might tell you that in order to stay out of debt, you should stay away from credit cards. I think the opposite is true. When you sign up for almost anything involving money (car payments, mortgage, etc), your monthly bill will often be based on your credit score. The higher your score, the lower your payment. You can’t get a high score unless you actually use credit, so it’s important to regularly use credit and pay your bills on time. Credit cards with rewards are also great because you get free things, like gift cards or travel miles, just for making purchases you’d normally be making anyways. I have an Amazon credit card and receive around $50 in Amazon credit each month, just for making my regular purchases. Free money. Of course, you shouldn’t abuse your credit cards, which brings me to…
3. Can’t pay it off in 30 days? Don’t buy it.
This should be a no-brainer. If you don’t pay off your credit cards in full each month, your balance will increase based on your interest rate. This is how many people get trapped in debt. If you can’t pay it off in 30 days then you can’t afford it.
4. Track your spendings.
Do you really know what you spend your money on? After tracking my expenses, I was surprised to find that I spend more on my dog each month than I do on nights out with friends. I recently downloaded an app called Mint, which links to my bank accounts (even PayPal!) and tells me how much I earn and spend each month, as well as categorizes my expenses, so I can see where my money goes. It also allows me to create budgets and alerts me when I’m nearing my budget limit for certain items. I highly recommend it for gaining insight into your spending habits and finding ways to save.
5. Cut back.
I don’t have a TV because I know I don’t need one. I cancelled Netflix because I barely used it. When I’m cold, I usually just throw on a sweater instead of blasting my heater. Thinking of small ways to cut back on daily expenses will add up to larger savings over time.
6. Make a plan.
If you’re already in debt, don’t pretend like you’re not in debt. There have been times when my bank account came dangerously close to “oh shit” and I wanted to do anything but sort out my finances. But things cannot improve unless you create a plan. Go through your expenses and earnings and find ways to save and cut back. You’ll feel more empowered with a plan, too.
7. Consider insurance.
Usually the things you have the option of buying insurance for are the ones that could put you in the worst possible debt. Health problems? House problems? Pet problems? If you don’t have insurance, you might be SOL. One of my parents got into a really bad accident a few years ago without health insurance and ended up having to file bankruptcy because of all the associated bills. Insurance certainly can be expensive and you may not even use it, but when you need it, you really need it. It’s also nice to relieve yourself of the worry if something bad does happen.
8. Prioritize.
What’s most important to you? Being able to eat or being able to go shopping every weekend? Saving money or worrying about making rent for the second month in a row? Prioritizing can be a little boring, since you’ll end up spending so much on essentials — shelter and food — but watching your savings grow will be 100% worth it. I don’t always abide by this practice, but each month, I try to pay all of my bills before buying any other big ticket items. That way, once all my priorities are covered, I can feel good about the extra money I’m bringing in and spending.
9. Make more money.
I know, easier said than done. But it’s certainly not impossible and most likely, much of the reason you’re not making more money is because you don’t think you can. At least, that’s what I figured when I was a teacher earning less than $40k a year. “What else would I do? How else could I even earn more money?” As it turned out, I just needed to use the skills I already had to start a side business, which is now my full-time job and earns me more than I ever did when I doubted myself. While doing my then side-business and working as a teacher, I made more money than I ever had in my life, which allowed me to save and pay off tons of bills. With the internet, social media, and networking, there are plenty of ways to maximize your talents and sell them to people. It could even be as simple as selling items you no longer use on eBay. Be creative!
p.s. How to Afford Traveling (And Everything Else), and How to Earn Money Blogging.
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I absolutely agree with #2 — when we first got married my husband was anti credit card … but it didn’t take long before I showed him that you can be responsible with it and have it help you out! Only wish I had thought to get an Amazon card — those credits would come in handy each month on my diaper subscription!
You should get one! I bet it would definitely help 🙂
The #2 is new for me because in Spain we do not “build the credit” so the first time that I heard it was a few months ago and I was totally confused until I understood. Now, I am trying to rent an apartment and they will check my credit but of course I am international so I do not have it, so if they finally accept me they will charge me more for the security deposit.
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That’s really interesting! I guess I never really considered what it would be like in other countries, but it makes sense.
Great advise! You should also shop around for credit cards once you establish your credit and consider what “rewards” make sense to your lifestyle. Get the most out of what you are spending, but make sure you are following #3 when using your cards! Thanks for the fantastic write-up Melyssa!
Yep, totally agree!
These are such great tips! First thing I did after reading this post was check my bank account and paid my bills haha. I had Mint, but I stopped using it. Hmm..maybe I should use it again!
haha that’s awesome! I paid mine right before posting this too haha. 🙂
#2 yes!!! I’m in college and I keep telling all my friends who are so ‘anti-credit cards’ or are scared of getting one that it really helps build credit.
I still need to work on a couple of these things. Ugh, saving money is so hard. I’ve got a million things currently waiting in multiple shopping carts on online stores literally waiting to be bought. Le, sigh – the struggle lol.
haha I know the feeling! When I start spending too much I usually just ask myself, “do I REALLY need this?” and find that I can be pretty honest about saying no.
great tips! i use mint.com too and I think it’s really helpful to see where my money goes.
Glad you liked the tips and that you like Mint too! I really find it useful
Great tips! It’s true, you need a good credit score to get approved for loans you may need in the future and for that a credit card is absolutely necessary! 🙂
Love the tips! I’ll have to keep these in mind whenever I move back to the US. I’ve been trying to get into the habit of budgeting and keeping track of my expenses while living in Japan since this is my first time making my own money. I think I’ve gotten into the swing of things and hope that it’ll transfer over when I move back!
That’s great, Mallory! I definitely felt like an “adult” when I did JET! haha
Love it love it, and will be using ALL of these tips! I’m getting married, and trying to reset some of my bad habits 🙂
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Awesome! Good luck with changing those habits and congrats on getting married!! 🙂
Thank you for these tips! They were definitely helpful especially since the past month I got approved for 3 credit cards and I haven’t had one in over 10 years so this is all new to me! I also have a side business because my full time job is not enough unless they promote me, which won’t be for another couple of months but at least I’m having fun with my side business while making extra money too 🙂
That’s awesome, Bella! Good luck building that side business!
This is amazing, thank you so much for sharing these tips! I am really jealous of the credit system in the US – in Europe, there is no such thing as free Amazon credit or building a credit score!
Glad to help, Martie! 🙂 And that’s really interesting — is there anything similar?
Great tips 🙂 I wish Australia has an Amazon credit card! I’m currently trying to figure out how I can earn money more efficiently – the job scene here is pretty crap, so finding work is a nightmare… but I’m hoping to use the skills I have to find work more creatively!
Ahh the job scene here sucks, too! I hope you’re able to think of something that utilizes your skills instead. 🙂 Good luck, Annabel!!
Thanks for opening up and sharing your tips! It’s always great to hear how people manage these kinds of things and their philosophy! 🙂 You’re so helpful, Melyssa!
And an over-share here, but oh man, my relationship with money is one that I’m trying to sort out… I’ve never been good with it (and not an excuse or anything, but I’m not sure that many INFP/ENFP types are naturally good with it… there are exceptions of course but it’s not something we are known for). ANYWAY, in the past year, I’ve been coming to realize that money is a form of energy so I’ve been trying to be better about putting that belief into practice, into how I live and taking steps to better my financial health. 🙂
Glad to help, friend!! 🙂 And I really like your philosophy about money being a form of energy — that’s such an accurate and interesting depiction of it! I am not always the best with money and get overly distracted by pretty things when my wallet is full, too. I’m going to keep your energy idea in mind though! I like that. 🙂
Your tips are great! My husband and I have been prioritizing lately. We cut out a few items a couple of months ago that seemed kind of nominal to us. Fast-forward a few months later, it really did add up! I will have to check out that app since we just try to track our spending manually {which I know we are missing something}.
That’s awesome that you’ve actually noticed a change! Every little bit really does help. 🙂
Thanks for the tips – Mel, I think a lot of gals our age struggle with this. Much love to Mariah too, she’s fantastic!
Thanks for the tips. My biggest savings was switching over to low income cable. A few bucks per month equals huge savings over the long haul.
That’s awesome! Crazy how much the small things can add up over time.
Rocking post girl! I love these tips and I gotta say being out of debt and having a semi-grasp on money is so worth it! I won’t lie and say that putting on a sweater, not buying those 3 extra shirts, etc is fun but it is worth it!
PS – Have you heard of Dave ramsey? A lot of your tips are ones he shares. He is super helpful and practical. If you haven’t looked into his ‘7 baby steps’ I highly recommend it.
I am with you! Both on how fun it can be to spend some cash and also how nice it is to stay out of debt haha. I’ve never heard of Dave Ramsey, but I’ll definitely check him out! 🙂
http://www.daveramsey.com/new/baby-steps/
That has the 7 steps listed.
we use mint too! and it’s been working great for us. 🙂
I love mint. We need to create a budget now we are settled in Charleston, but we watch what we spend then try to beat it a little more. It’s fun and a challenge for us to see how low we can go.
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