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How I Went From My Day Job to Full-Time Freelancer in Three Months

Melyssa Griffin

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About two years ago, I was working at a preschool in Japan. I’d like to tell you that it was an enjoyable experience, but if we’re being honest, it was one of the most miserable jobs I’ve ever had. I love kids — their sincerity and silliness have always drawn me close to them, but tending to screaming toddlers for nine hours a day left me feeling a bit like screaming myself. But being a foreigner in Japan, I realized I didn’t have the language skills or experience to do much else than be an English teacher. I was stuck. 

I’m sure you’ve heard this cliche enough, but I’ll say it again: if you’d have told me that one year later, I’d have created my own dream job, I’m not sure I would have believed you. But it was true. And it happened. And so, too, can it happen to you. One of the questions I get asked most often is, “how did you go from your day job to being a full-time business owner?” I know why people are so curious about this. I scoured the internet myself at many points, hoping to find some answers of my own. But more than anything, I was searching for hope and encouragement — something that would make this impossible thing seem a helluva lot more doable. Today, I’d like to share a bit about how I was able to quit my day job to pursue my dream job, along with a few tips on how you can, too.

Like I mentioned, a couple years ago I was working as a preschool teacher in the heart of Tokyo. Many aspects of the job didn’t seem to suit me, but I remember one day when my boss asked me to design a flyer for our small (and very new) school. I’d never worked professionally as a designer and she likely only chose me for the task because I had brought my computer with me to work that day, rather than for any obvious skill I bore. When I handed her the finished product, she was delighted. She began to hand me more and more items to design — brochures, posters, and the school’s blog, among other things. It was thrilling to finally put my hobby practice into actual use. It was also around the time when I decided to start a creative outlet of my own, The Nectar Collective.

I ended up leaving that job for another teaching position in Tokyo, all while working on my blog during any free moment I had. I’ve admittedly been obsessed with blogging since about the time I started this blog. It began as a creative release from my stressful school days and ended up becoming an even larger and more prominent part of my life than I ever could have expected. But even with all the hours I put into it, I didn’t start making much money until I decided to put some of my design skills into virtual practice.

I’d seen plenty of bloggers run graphic design businesses on the side and thought that I could join in, too, as a fun little hobby. I never ever expected blogging or designing to take me anywhere other than something fun to do on weeknights. All I knew was that I was following the direction of what I loved, which I’ve realized is perhaps the most important rule in finding a career that makes you look forward to Mondays. In July, 2013, I launched “Bumble + Buzz Design” (now “The Nectar Collective Design“) — a lengthy play on words of the “nectar” theme. My first month in business, I made about $900, — which, albeit small, — as an accidental business owner, was unbelievably exciting. It was hardly enough to pay my rent, but I knew it could be much more, if I took a greater leap.

The next two months, I continued to work as a high school English teacher in Tokyo, while also writing on The Nectar Collective and designing blogs and websites every free chance I had. I worked constantly, but the thrill of building my own business was enough to keep me going. Within three months of becoming an accidental freelance web designer, I was making enough of an income to quit my job as a teacher in order to pursue blogging and design full-time. Now, I don’t want you to think I was raking in the dough during those first three months. I most certainly was not. I think I made around $1,800 during my third month in business — not an insignificant amount, but certainly not livable in Tokyo, or California where I would soon return to. Despite my arguably mediocre paycheck, I felt compelled to pursue this gig full time. Somewhere in my heart, I knew that if I put in the work, especially without a day job eating up my time, I’d be able to do it.

Now, after freelancing for about a year, I can safely say it’s been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Aside from reaching monetary goals I never really would have thought possible, I’ve also cultivated a sense of inner-happiness, independence, and success that are deeply meaningful to my life. Before I go, I want to leave you with a few pieces of advice that have undoubtedly helped me along the way. If you have any questions, I’m also happy to answer them in the comments.  🙂

1. Hustle your butt off.

Oh, you’re not starting that business you always dreamed of because you already have a demanding job? Then work on it at night. Or on weekends. Or on your lunch break. It will be one part overwhelming, one part how-in-the-hell-do-I-even-have-time-for-this and two parts WHOA I’M ACTUALLY DOING IT. The hustle will be worth it, you just have to make the time.

2. Start a blog. (Or at least a website). (No, on second thought: Start a blog).

I should (and probably will) write an entire post dedicated to why you NEED a blog if you want to start any kind of business, but I was lucky in that I happened to start my blog without ever realizing I needed it. Blogs are incredible marketing tools, and while you may not see a huge, direct monetary return from writing daily posts, you will absolutely receive new visitors and potential clients. Think of it this way: if you only build a website for your business, you’re offering about five pages of content to search engines, hoping your shiz will stand out against about a zillion other sites with nearly the exact same info. Blogs can add an enormous amount of authority to your site, not to mention hundreds of other posts and pages that will lead search engine visitors straight to your services page. Plus, blogs are crazy fun. You should get one.

3. Take the leap just before you think you can.

So you’ve followed steps 1 and 2 — you’re hustling and have a sweet blog to boot. But when do you take that final jump? When do you quit your day job to pursue this new gig full-time? I can’t really tell you that there’s a precise formula for this, and everyone’s situation is different. What I can tell you is that you’ll probably never be ready. I don’t say that to discourage you. What I actually mean is that if you keep waiting for a time when you feel like you’ve got this in the bag, you’ll probably never begin. Make the leap just before you think you can. It might be scary. But it will probably also be totally awesome.

4. Invest. In. Yo. Self.

One thing I almost never held back on was investing in my budding business. I was keen to invest in anything from learning tools to software — anything that would help my business or myself. I encourage you to do the same. It’s easy to trap ourselves beneath the excuse of, “I’ll start investing in my blog/business when it starts to earn more money,” but it’s a catch 22 and will likely only hold you back. Your business deserves it, and really, so do you.

I’d love to answer any questions you have in the comments. And if you’re looking to start a business of your own, I encourage you wholeheartedly to try. You’d be amazed what you’re capable of. Have a beautiful day! 🙂

p.s. What I’ve learned after one year of running my own business + let’s work together!

 

  1. Great tips! I’ve since started the ‘freelancer’ life in 2013 so I appreciate posts like this that encourage people to do what they really want in life and not get stuck in a job that they don’t like XD

  2. Tanea says:

    Inspiring story! Thanks for the tips, and congrats on your success!

  3. The slow pace says:

    Really inspiring post! I’m scared of leaving my current job but. some day…
    xx,
    E.
    http://www.theslowpace.com

  4. thealishanicole says:

    I love reading your story!! I agree,sometimes you have to just go for it before you talk yourself out of it!

  5. Great post Melyssa. It’s always fun to hear how designers got started especially when their focus in school wasn’t design.

  6. Ashley of Ashley Abroad says:

    Loved this post. Last year I worked as a freelance writer and blogger but ultimately didn’t make enough to live anywhere but Southeast Asia/India. I SO wish I had creative skills like you- being a graphic designer/web designer seems like so much fun!

  7. Jessica says:

    This post is really great, thanks for sharing x

    http://www.wild-cherrytree.com

  8. Laisa says:

    Awesome advice! Very practical and grounded on reality, loved your post!

  9. EmC says:

    So inspiring! Really aligns with the “get out of your own way” philosophy and just going for it. 🙂

  10. Amy Amynmore says:

    Three months is a really short time, so well done, you must have something special that people want!

    Number four applies to me. I should invest (blog design) but it is time rather than thinking I should wait holding me back. xx

    Amy at Amy & More

    • Thank you Amy! 🙂 I see a lot of people who struggle with investing in their blogs. What do you mean by “time” holding you back?

      • Amy Amynmore says:

        I don’t want to just pick a random template. I’ve heard a few bad stories so want to pick a designer that has a good rep because I know nothing about design so will not be able to fix anything myself. So I need to spend time doing that and to think about what I actually want from my layout.

        I need to be spending that time at the moment working out my future. That is a lot more important right now. But once that is sorted (hopefully within the next couple of months) I can invest in my little blog. 🙂 xx

  11. Amy says:

    I love reading your blog! I would love to follow a similar path, and have started making a few small steps in that direction, but keep running into “I’m not sure I can do this” thoughts. Did you have to deal with that?

  12. Gabby says:

    Haha! This was a bit funny. I’ve been reading some of your older posts (since I only found your blog a couple of weeks ago), and just today I read your posts about where you started and where you got your money from and thought it definitely could be worth to write about again.
    So, I was wondering, how did you get clients so soon after you started your blog? Even if it wasn’t a fortune you still managed to get some kind of income from the first month! That’s really great! Did you find it hard to know how much to charge for your work?
    I hope this wasn’t to personal questions! I really look forward to your thoughts on the topic!

    • Hi Gabby! haha what a coincidence! And not too personal — your questions are great!

      So, I started my blog in February last year and blogged almost 5 days a week, every single week. I was diehard! haha. Because I put SO much time into my blog, I was able to grow my following pretty quickly, which made it a lot easier to get clients when I rolled out my design services five months later in July. I was also well-connected with other bloggers who helped promote my new business on Twitter — so helpful! I definitely think that putting so much effort into my blog and growing my readership is what helped me grow my business so quickly, too.

      As for figuring out what to charge, YES, I struggled with this at first. When I was starting, I basically looked at some other sites from designers who had about as much experience as I did and charged about as much as they did. Compared to what I charge now, that number was incredibly low. But given my newbie experience level at the time, it seems pretty fair to me. My low prices also got a lot of customers in the door that first month, which was good both because it got the word out more (since they could refer their friends to me) and gave me experience to build my skills. Nowadays, I generally bump up my prices when my waiting list gets too long. I hope that helps! 🙂

  13. I absolutely love reading other people’s success stories – how they got to do the thing they want to be doing in life. Such an interesting post 🙂

  14. Wow, such inspiring advice! I’ve been toying with this idea and am wondering, when will I know that I’m good enough/have enough experience to sell… Did you master several design skills first? Do you use photoshop extensively? What tools did you need to be familiar with to make your business a success? Thanks for all your input, I really appreciate it!

    • Hi Naomi! You know what, I honestly was NOT that skilled when I first started. haha. Always nice to laugh at yourself, right? 😉 But at that time, I also didn’t expect much from this new gig, other than some extra spending money and a fun hobby. I charged low prices at first because of my skill level, which both got me a lot of clients right away and helped me build my experience with a variety of work. I definitely think you’d need at least some knowledge of Photoshop (I learned pretty much everything from just fiddling around in my spare time over the years!), but you don’t need to be an expert to get started. 🙂

  15. Monique Muro says:

    Great advice, Mel! I think what I always think holds me back is the learning process. I’m transitioning to freelance writing full time and the biggest thing holding me back is the time it takes to learn the industry and sell my services. I’m taking classes and belong to various writing communities but the time it takes to learn is what’s frustrating me, because I’m learning on nights/weekends, and I often feel like it’s taking forever. How long did it take you to learn the skills of designing/building a business? Was it kind of a learn-as-you-go type of thing? Great post as always! 🙂

    • That’s rad that your transitioning to freelance writing full-time!! How awesome, Monique! Are you also selling services while you’re learning? I think running a business is like learning a language — you can learn it by the book, but if you go to another country, you’ll realize no one talks the way they do in textbooks. Does that make sense? What I mean is that taking classes and learning the industry sounds like an excellent idea (and I’m really impressed you’re doing that!), but you’ll gain a lot of experience, too, from just jumping in and figuring things out as you go. I think a combo of both is the best route (I pretty much just dove right in and definitely struggled a bit at first with trying to figure out my own industry, gah!). Maybe you could start selling your services part-time and see how that goes? 🙂

  16. Lix Hewett says:

    Investing in business is so important, I have to keep reminding myself… in terms of “surely there are people out there willing to invest in my photography and design work to get their businesses to thrive,” ha, because, no, I’m too broke to invest money in my business at the moment. It’s sad but true. I’m still saving for a 50 mm lens though! I get small things, little by little.

    You’re right that it’s never a good time to take a huge risk. I still can’t believe I moved to London. I had 800€ in my bank account when I moved. I still owe my best friend £300 for my share of the hotel room we split the first week. I’m still struggling SO much. But I keep going.

    Do you have any advice for finding clients who actually love what you do and want you on their team? And will pay you good money to be?

    • Lix, this comment makes me really happy! I remember when you would always talk about moving to London and…wow! You did it! I didn’t even know that because I live under a human-sized rock, but that’s really exciting news. Also, I don’t mean this to sound patronizing, but you SOUND happier, too. I can feel this strong sense of confidence and optimism radiating from you and it is seriously awesome. 🙂

      Anyways, I really like the question you asked, because I think it’s kind of the end goal. My best advice for finding clients like that is to 1) raise your prices, and 2) create an experience when people work with you. For the first one, I’ve found that when my prices were lower, clients didn’t respect me as much. My work was more disposable. Also, if your prices are higher, you’ll attract people who are more willing to invest in their business, which generally yields people who really care about their business and want to find a designer/photographer who will also give it that same care. For my second point, what I mean is that everything should be “on brand” for your own brand. From your pricing list PDF to your website copy, it should all scream “YOU” so that when your perfect client stumbles on your site, they can connect to who you are and what you have to have. If people can relate to you, they will pay good money to have you on their team. Also, one more random thing that just popped in my head? Offer your services (maybe even for free) to big (BIG!) bloggers or business owners. I did a blog design recently for a pretty big beauty blogger/YouTuber, and I get an enormous amount of potential client emails from her site, solely because the bottom of her blog says “Design by: TNC” and links to my site. It’s an incredible marketing tool!

  17. Katia E says:

    Woo great advice! Thank you for sharing!

    I love that bit about investing in your business (and yourself too!) I was just thinking about how it is worth it to invest right away, if you’re dedicated anyway. Waiting and waiting for the ‘right time’ will just prolong the waiting…. which is something you mentioned too actually haha!

  18. Erika says:

    What a great and inspiring post! It is so incredibly generous to share this and I feel like I am completely on the right track (I am quitting my job, which I do not like, by xmas and have days when I think I am crazy for doing that. I had one of thos days today…) Ii is so good to hear that it is possible to succeed (even if it takes hard work)!! Thanks again! <3

  19. Gina Alyse says:

    Melyssa, this is so wonderful. I’m so glad you shared this with us today. I am blown away by the amount of inspiration your blog has given me and I was so excited to see how TNC came about. Seriously, so inspirational. You are pushing me to invest more in my hobbies and my dreams and work for those goals. I’m so, so glad I found your blog awhile ago and I’m so thankful for this post as I explore my opportunities coming up after college! A huge THANK YOU doesn’t even do that justice.

    • Holy mackerel, Gina! How do you always make my day? Seriously, this was just about the sweetest comment I could ever ask for. Thank YOU for inspiring me with your sincerity and dedication. I’m so glad to have you here! Can’t wait to see all the dream-tastic things you do in the coming months and years. 🙂

  20. What a wonderful, inspirational post! I have a blog and opened a small online boutique about a year after creating my blog. Unfortunately due to being a full time business owner elsewhere I wasn’t able to run my boutique the way it should be run so I shut her down. But I’m still blogging my heart out knowing one day, one day those online “doors” will open back up and my boutique will be up and running again 😉 Thanks for the encouragement and sharing your story!

  21. Stacia says:

    The hustle is so essential. It’s the hardest and the most rewarding part of running a business.

  22. Neha Sharma says:

    This is inspiring! It would be an absolute dream to freelance full-time and it’s so nice to hear your story and how you made it happen! Love your blog and I’m happy that you kept on writing and doing what you do best. Cheers to having Mondays that you actually look forward to!

    Neha // http://nehasharmaphoto.com/blog

  23. Ashley says:

    Great post! Super informative and helpful! What were some of the first things you invested in when you started your business on the side? My husband and I are in the process of starting an Etsy shop, I have a blog and I’m wondering what sort of things should we invest in first.

    • Great question, Ashley! And how exciting that you’re starting your own business! What kind of products will you be selling in your shop? For me, one of the very first things I invested in was a blog and website design. I did them myself (since that was my business! hah!), but invested in things like a framework, plugins, a Wacom tablet, etc. For people who aren’t designers, I always recommend hiring a designer to create a site for you. Aside from that, I invested in things like sponsorships on other blogs and a webhost that would make my website run more quickly. 🙂

      • Ashley says:

        We are going to start with prints and digital downloads. Eventually we want to expand to mugs, travel mugs, calendars, iphone cases, t-shirts and canvas bags.

        • So awesome! One of the things I invested in when opening my print shop was an Epson R2000, which allowed me to print each item myself and still have them look professional. The printer is a bit of an investment, but I liked it more this way because I could print each item when it was ordered, rather than purchasing hundreds of copies from a printer ahead of time and having them all over my house (and having to invest in those hundreds of prints).

  24. Fiona says:

    I love your honesty. I think those jobs that you’re not happy in can be the most motivating to make a change. I love reading posts like this.

  25. thebrokelife says:

    What an inspiring post! We can do this!

  26. Tessa says:

    This such an inspiring post, thank you so much for sharing this! I would love to be self employed too, but I have no idea where to start! At the moment I’m just enjoying blogging and the small amount of revenue it creates while I work full time 🙂

    Tessa / Bramble & Thorn

  27. another good reason to blog – it’s fun for readers to watch you and your business grow over time 🙂

  28. Theresa D. says:

    Everyone has asked great questions so far! I hope there is a part 2 coming 🙂

    Theresa
    http://www.underhonesttrees.com

  29. Mel,

    You’re an inspiration. Your design instincts really do speak for themselves, it’s clear why you’ve had so much success! I’d image you have a team of people working for you now– or is it just you?

    I have to admit, I’m a bit stalled. My first month at NerdyGirl we landed a $5k gig, but that’s been our only substantial assignment thus far and none of my marketing efforts have really panned out yet. Still trying to figure that one out =) stay tuned!

    Brittany

    • Thank you so much, Brittany! 🙂 It’s actually just me! Maybe one day I’ll open it up to other people, but I do like the solitary-ness of it for now. 🙂

      That’s awesome that you landed such a great gig right away! What kind of marketing efforts have you tried so far?

      • Mostly just responding to online job postings, but I’m starting to realize that personal networking is really the only effective use of marketing time for freelancers. My struggle is, how do I connect with the right people when my target customer is a medium sized business owner and most of my friends are actors? 🙂

        • DEFinitely think networking is the way to go. And to answer your question, I’d recommend getting in on Twitter. You can search on Twitter, to see if people are asking questions related to services you offer (like business owners who are looking for copy writers or virtual assistants). Aside from that, I’d try to just connect with as many medium-sized business owners on Twitter as you can. Just reach out, say hello, and tell them you like what they’re doing. Then keep up the communication. It’s simple, but a lot of it is just about getting your name in front of people who need you.

  30. Samsam says:

    I’ll be graduating NEXT December and I’m definitely glad to have read this post now and not once I’ve got the diploma in my hand. I have dreams. Lots of them. And a lot of them seem very unrealistic and unattainable. But your post gives me inspiration. Seriously. I’m going to reach for my dreams and start thinking about how to live them now before I’m stuck with a degree and nothing to do with it.
    Thank you so much for posting!!!
    ~ Samantha

  31. What a great post! I am thinking of doing something similar soon! Im currently taken a semester with making websites and I am thinking of taking some kind of design course soon as well! I am slowly starting my business in January and expanding from there. I currently only have a part time job so hopefully I will get a lot done while still having a little extra income…

  32. So inspiring to read your journey and hear your honesty about starting your business. Wonderful to see you so successful and enjoying what you are doing everyday, I think that’s everyone’s dream!

  33. amyyoungmiller says:

    This was VERY helpful. Especially the bit about starting the blog. I’ve got one but feel mildly guilty about working on it since a) It makes very little $$ at this time and b) It’s so much fun, dadgummit! But it’s a worthy connection to the world and you’ve explained why it’s so. So it’s so.

    • I’m so glad to hear this was helpful, Amy! And ha! I totally get how you feel about your blog. Despite having more followers than it did a year ago, my blog still makes a pretty small amount of money. Sometimes I ask myself if it really makes sense that I spend so much time on it, but I do love it and think it has helped my business a TON, so I think I just have to have faith that it’s doing its part. 🙂

  34. Laina Turner says:

    Very motivating!

  35. Cori says:

    Hi Mel:
    First, thank you so so much for these pieces of advice ♥!
    Second, I’m actually stuck doubting if I should invest some money on an eCourse for making videos… One of my monthly goals is to make my first video and I’m still terrified of making it hehe, but reading your advice made me feel more secure investing some money on it 😀
    Have a lovely day Mel 🙂

    • Hi Cori! I definitely encourage you to make that investment if you’re able to. It’s tough to commit to something like that, but it sounds like the thing you’re scared of isn’t the money it’ll take to pay for the eCourse, but rather making your own videos that other people will watch. Maybe the eCourse will touch on that topic — having the courage to share your creative gifts. 🙂

  36. misschievous says:

    Inspiring! I hustle, but sometimes I do get verrrry tired, but I keep on hustling anyway. I stop on some days though. I am an engineer, but I write on the sides! And I earn half of my paycheck hustling. The time it takes is like 1/3 of the time I’m spending on my day job. I guess I’m in a good position to quit?! But, I still have responsibilities at work. Maybe next year when the time is right! 🙂

  37. Oh gosh this is a great post, and such good timing! I am in that “hustle” stage… and I feel like the big switch is getting closer and closer. Congrats on your amazing story, and thanks for writing this post!

  38. stef says:

    Super inspiring post. I own a small business entirely unrelated to blogging so I doubt I could ever take my blog even semi full-time, but I love the idea of making a bit of money through blogging and design work. I’ll read through the comments to make sure this hasn’t already been covered, but would you (have you?!) ever shared some of the resources that helped you learn more about the technical side of site designs? I previously worked in marketing/graphic design so I’m very capable in Illustrator/Photoshop, but coding and database issues are a major weak spot. Any tutorials you love? Online classes you took?

    • Hi Stef! That’s a great question and something I haven’t actually talked much about here. I code all of my designs through Headway Themes, which makes it a tad easier to get a basic look for your blog/website. It also is fully customizable with HTML/CSS. In the beginning, I pretty much just used its basic functions, and the knowledge I had of HTML from random internet searches over the years. But most of what I’ve learned has just been through experimentation and seeing something somewhere, wondering how it was coded, and figuring it out myself. I frequently refer to this site: http://www.w3schools.com/css/ which has some pretty straight-forward CSS tutorials. I wish I had a class I could refer you to, but my best advice is to just experiment and use Google to figure out how other websites achieved certain functions. 🙂

    • I use a website called Codecademy to learn coding, it’s free and their teaching style is super easy to understand. Google them, and check it out, they teach HTML, CSS, Javascript, Jquery, and a few other coding languages. Coding was a big weak spot of mine too, but I’m feeling more confident since I’ve been taking their courses!

  39. Vitoria Neves says:

    Thanks for writing your story. I can totally relate… I used to be a high school teacher in a foreign country (Austria), now I back in Portugal and started my full-time career as a designer. Stories like yours make me feel more inspired and encouraged to continue doing what I’ve started.

  40. Stephanie says:

    Love this post! It inspires and motivates me to keep going despite currently working a 9 to 5 that feels more like a 12 hr day instead. I’m excited to be launching my website and blog next month and (hopefully) my shop soon after that but it does get hard balancing everything and post like these motivate me — so THANKS! and keep ’em coming 🙂

    ~ Stephanie @ Chrystal Designs

  41. I love all of these tips. i think the biggest piece of advice is to jump before you can think about it. if you think about you will start to doubt yourself.

  42. Gina G says:

    I really enjoyed reading this post. I’m slowly putting together my own little business of selling the items I knit. It was really just for fun but it’s starting to take shape this year so I’m going to spend much of 2015 really working on it.

  43. Isabel says:

    Last tip is something I call “Perfection Paralysis”, and I’ve been in until I figured nobody starts when they’re ready. Everything builds itself, but in order for that to happen you need to invest and take the leap.
    If you think something can help build your business, like a new camera, but you don’t want to invest in it until you actually start making money. Don’t wait, just do it. You’ll figure it out.

  44. Camila says:

    Great post! I think I’m struggling with #4 – I can’t afford to spend much right now so I don’t want to spend before making anything, and like you said it truly is a catch 22!

  45. Freelance career as like any other one is very difficult to build. Starting from scratch, you have to work hard, learn and read. You also have to be a good researcher. I don’t want to scare you off from freelancing, but i want to point that’s not easy like many people think, some my friends as well 🙂 .
    Thanks, good tips!

  46. Mary Shoppings says:

    I always want a clear structure with positive and negative arguments all spread out before I dare to jump but I’m glad to read in your post that this choice is mostly about motivation and hard work and most important for me : dare to jump 🙂
    Again a great post ! Thank u for inspiring

  47. There was a quote from Brandon of HONY that really resonated with me, though I don’t remember what it was word for word. You know how people say, “Do what you love and you’ll never have to work a day in your life”? Well, Brandon was saying how that is completely false. In fact, to make a living doing what you love, you have to work even harder! Your statement about hustling your butt off just reminded me of that 🙂 -Audrey | Brunch at Audrey’s

  48. Abby Flynn says:

    This is realy great stuff so glad I found this post! I always love hearing about how other people have found their calling and kind of dive in from there.
    When day jobs suck the life out of you it can be so hard to take that extra time and make the effort to keep going on outside things. Thanks for the encouragement and inspiration!

  49. Ulrike says:

    Great post! Such an inspiration 🙂
    Ulrike

    One Year of Sunday

  50. I think $900 in your first month is a very impressive amount! I’m so happy this worked out for you. 🙂

  51. Encouraging post! I love reading posts like this that remind me to continue to pursue my dream job!

  52. Sanjusa says:

    Thank you so much for this great post! I agree with every single word. I’m putting so much effort into pursuing my dream job for quite some time now and you gave me a confirmation I am doing it the right way 🙂

  53. Bambi says:

    This is the third time I’ve read this post and I just can’t get it out of my head! I’m looking to get into freelance writing and want to learn about website design, but it all seems so crazy! I’m excited and scared. Seeing others like you who have done it is very inspiring, especially with how well you have done! Thank you for this wonderful blog and all the information you share 🙂

  54. Anjelica says:

    Wow, this post is so encouraging. I feel like I’m exactly where you were in the beginning! So did you have Web Design training before you started making those flyers?

  55. Stephanie says:

    These tips are so important in making any dream come true! Love it!

  56. This is my 2nd time reading this post, and I’m inspired again! I’m actually in this position where I’m in between jobs and have the ability to go all out. I have a website, I blog, and I want to pursue my photography business and create a business at home, but I feel like it’s so challenging.
    Any pointers or tips that you would recommend?

  57. I love this post! So inspiring – it’s so important to follow your heart. I know in my experience, my friends and family don’t always understand why I would ever want to leave the security and stability of a 9-5 corporate job. There is a reason why your heart is telling you to start something that brings you passion on your own terms!

  58. I recently lost my job (I worked for Target Canada which went out of business) and I really want to being pursuing blogging and designing full-time. I’m spending as much time as I can right now on a rebrand and I’m excited to get my new business up and running!

  59. It’s so challenging to invest in a blog…especially when most people see it as a hobby. Like family or a partner you’re living with (they’ve all come around after 5 years lol!). I do agree though that once I started investing, I took everything more seriously and it started to pay off!

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  60. Also, question: did you have any formal training in design and/or coding? I’m curious how you got into website design! I love messing with stuff on my blog but I’m very aware that I don’t know coding and that’s a huge part of designing blogs!!

  61. Sam Liang says:

    Yes, starting a blog has been one of the biggest challenge but yet keeps me going everyday. I have learned a lot of things and have met a lot of new bloggers. It really helps me in the long run.

  62. Sarah says:

    Thanks so much for sharing, I have started freelancing full time and I was feeling a bit disheartened because I keep getting such awful clients! (& I used to be lawyer, dealing with anti-social behaviour so it takes quite a lot to get under my skin!) but this post totally reminded me why I started my own biz in the first place, so glad I came across it! 🙂

  63. Kaitlyn says:

    I looooove posts like this! It is SO motivational to us budding freelancers! I love the transparency in letting us readers know the struggle and that the money wasn’t necessarily there at first but you did it and figured it out anyway. Thanks for sharing! 🙂
    – Kaitlyn | http://www.TheCrownFox.com

  64. melyssa, reading your story over the course of many of your posts has just been awesome. you’re totally elevating me with hope and more importantly, the idea that “maybe i CAN actually do this”. i’ve never been so excited as i am now to start pursuing my work with more dedication and attention. thank you for sharing what you share!

  65. Pernickety Pitstop says:

    Hi Melyssa, I think this is probably my fourth or fifth time I’m reading this post… I used to sit at my desk in a yawn inducing office longing to be able to get my creative groove on and be my own boss. I must have looked into how it could possibly be feasible like a hundred times and then always panicked about money and what-not and just tried to silence the creative part of me that was trying to get out. Fast forward to December just gone and I was signed off work for anxiety and stress. I won’t go in to details, but what I will say it was both the worst time ever -and- the best three weeks I’ve had in years. I was me again, for the first time in a long while. Sob story bit over, I returned to work, got gutsy and quit my job the very next day (with no plans in place whatsoever…eek!) This may have been quite a rushed decision but when it’s your health that’s starting to get affected, that’s when you know enough is enough.

    I am in my third week of trying to hustle some clients, and have managed to get a couple of logo designs for people like me trying to set up an etsy shop. All these clients have been from a Facebook group (thanks for that other gem of advice!) The trouble is, I think this is probably my target market, however, because they’re just setting out, they all have very limited funds and so I feel I am being forced in to charging a very small amount for the work that I am putting in. Like I say it’s only three weeks in and I’m desperate for the money so I won’t be saying no any time soon, but have you ever been in this situation and how did you escape it?

    Any advice on starting out would mean the world!! (Your blog has been completely invaluable to me and one day, when I can afford to, I hope we can work together so I can begin to pay you back for all your help!!

    All the love from over the pond! Lxx

  66. voltraverse says:

    Hi Melyssa! Thanks for sharing your experiences. I’d like to become a freelancer as well, but I have concerns regarding the visa. I read that freelancers have to have at least a one-year contact, make around 3,000,000 yen per year, and contracts must be with Japanese companies. Is my understanding correct?

    • If you freelance, you can work and make however much or little you can/want to with anyone of your choosing. I’m not sure what kind of freelancing work you’d like to do, but you should be able to set your hours and rates with anyone who will pay you. Good luck! 🙂

  67. Tina Lowe says:

    You are my hero! I just found your blog and I can’t get enough… now, off to read another!

  68. Rachel Vuorenmaa says:

    Hi Melyssa! I came across your work a couple of weeks ago when I decided that my love of writing, creativity, and this crazy thing I call life, would be totally enriched with a blog! I’ve followed some others, but love your enthusiasm and would love if you could direct me to any other posts you have that explain the basics of getting started developing a blog (some Blog 101 is much needed here, ha ha). Any advice or direction would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

  69. I loved your old blog sooo much. Your new niche is amazing as well but your lifestyle blog had me coming back every day. How’s monja? How have you been? I miss tuning in. Hope you’ve been well!

    • Monja is doing really good! Thank you for asking and expressing such kind words. I’m so glad to hear that my lifestyle posts were interesting and hopefully helpful for you. I have actually been transitioning more into the personal development and fulfillment space and I hope to see you around the community for my new content. 🙂

  70. Awesome sharing, Melyssa. Making the dough is slow coming for me but I love what I am doing so much, I would do it free. On the flip side, I am working my bum off so it will pay off. Your blog here was one of the first I ran into which helped point me in the right direction. THANK you.

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