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5 Actionable Steps You Can Take Towards Making Your Dreams a Reality

Melyssa Griffin

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So you’ve got a dream, an ambition, a passion to do something new. It’s not something you always talk about or something you’re sure will ever even come to fruition, but it’s there. You find yourself thinking about it during the slow moments of your day or as you lie awake in bed. And yet, you’re waiting to get started on it.

So often we hold off on pursuing our dreams because we’re not sure where to even begin. If you’re sitting on a goal, and you’re ready to get started, here are a few things you can do today (not tomorrow, or a week from now, or in a year — TODAY) to start making that dream a reality.

Just pick something

For those creative types out there, you might find it difficult to move forward on your dreams because, well, you’ve just got a lot of dreams to choose from. Your big, beautiful brain is constantly cooking up new projects, new ideas, new ways to utilize your talents. For you, the question isn’t what are you good at, it’s which of your diverse passions you should pursue. If this sounds anything like you, here’s some tough love, friend: you’ve got to pick one. I’m not saying you can’t do a few amazing things all at once, but if the threat of choosing the wrong path is keeping you from going down any path at all, my advice is to just close your eyes, spin around a few times, and point in a direction. Start walking, and don’t look back.

Create a mind map

Once you’ve selected your dream, it’s time to start brainstorming. One of my favorite ways to do this is by creating a mind map, an extremely helpful visual brainstorming tool. Start by writing your goal in the center of a page (ex: “start a blog”) and drawing a circle around it. From there, think about the various categories of your goal (ex: content, aesthetic, social media, audience, brand, voice) and draw lines from the center leading to those new categories. Focusing on one category at a time, continue to expand on each one by drawing branches to new thoughts and ideas. Continue this process, and watch as your mind map becomes filled with new and interesting concepts that have been hiding away in that awesome brain of yours. When you’re done, you’ll have a slew of creative directions that you can begin to pursue.

Create a productivity system

One of the hardest things about starting towards a new endeavor is prioritizing your to-do list. Here’s one of my favorite methods: start by creating a master list of everything you need/would like to get done. Every. Little. Thing. Then sort those items onto three different lists: a Doing-Now list, a Not-Doing-Now list, and a Never-Doing-Now list. Your Doing-Now list is the things you plan to get done TODAY. Your Not-Doing-Now list is the things that are important but should only be accomplished after the completion of your Doing-Now list. Your Never-Doing-Now list is the things that might be fun or interesting, but at this time, won’t contribute to your productivity. These lists are helpful because they leave you with no excuse in terms of knowing what you should be working on. Rearrange them daily and see how your priorities shift.

Build a team

By including people in your goals, you are immediately more likely to feel accountable in succeeding. There are tons of different ways to bring people in on what you’re doing. Perhaps you want to find a business partner, collaborate with someone in your field, or maybe just create a group devoted to meeting regularly to brainstorm over coffee. Whatever kind of team you want to develop, it’s important to ask yourself, “Who do I know who A) might benefit from this endeavor B) cares about me and wants to see my dreams come to fruition and C) I work well with and respect?”

And then, pitch your idea to those individuals. Be clear, concise, and to the point about what you want from this relationship. And do it today! Seriously, the fastest way to lose steam on an idea is to try to develop it all by yourself, so cut out that temptation as early as possible.

Invest

Money is a powerful motivator. There’s nothing quite like putting down a significant chunk of change to make you say, “Well, I guess there’s no turning back now.” By investing capital in your dream, you immediately bring legitimacy to it. So without emptying your savings account, think about how you can use your money in a way that will help you attain your goals. Perhaps you need to purchase a domain, register for a class, price a new camera, or hire a virtual assistant. Whatever it is, know that you and your dreams are worth the investment.

What is your dream and how are you working to make it a reality?

 

  1. Samsam says:

    I literally JUST put up a post about going after your dreams…for me (and for many college students, I imagine), money is such a huge barrier. Seriously. I want to travel SO badly, but having to pay off tuition and a car and only having a part time job, it’s so nearly impossible to even imagine my dreams can become a reality. I think steps like these are a great place to start though, thanks for sharing!
    ~ Samantha

  2. Allie @ 6000 Miles to Home says:

    Great thoughts here- thanks! I totally agree about bringing others in – it makes it more real, helps you verbalize your dreams, and as you mentioned you always end up benefiting from the networking. Great list :).
    http://6000milestohome.blogspot.com/2015/04/getaway-weekend-palm-springs.html

  3. I’m working on rebranding my blog and I plan on using it as a tool to go alongside my freelance design business. I plan to launch in a couple of weeks and I can’t even begin to tell you how helpful your blog has been in this process. I only came across it a few days ago but I’ve been reading so much and soaking in all the great information and advice you share! So thank you!

  4. Jessi says:

    I love this! I definitely needed this motivation, and these tips seem so effective, yet simple!

  5. Starting my blog was a big dream. So glad I did it, I’m a newbie blogger but already loving the lifestyle blogging community!

  6. “Just Pick Something”
    LOVE IT!

  7. This is such a good list! I find so much online is written as click-bait these days and this article just goes to show there are people and blogs out there actually trying to help. I love lists and am a ‘master list’ fan. I think just getting it out of your mind onto a piece of paper/journal/notebook helps to clear the mind. Thanks for the article Christy!

  8. Anna says:

    Great list! I seriously need help with number 1 though Dx My brain is so full of ideas it really is so hard to just pick. I need to suck it up and just do it! x
    http://thecornishlife.co.uk

  9. Awesome post, Christy. I can really sympathise with the first one – I feel like quite a few creatives nowadays have SO MANY RESOURCES at our fingertips and so many opportunities we could pursue. Picking a path (and, worse – limiting your other passions to just hobbies!) is one of the most difficult – but also most important – things we can do.

    I would like to ask a somewhat unrelated question, though – one of your suggestions under #2 caught my eye, the example of the aesthetic of a blog as something to think about. If you have time, I (and, I’m sure, other TNC readers/bloggers!) would love to see some suggestions for figuring out a blog’s aesthetic. 🙂

  10. Kelly Brito says:

    Chisty’s tips are a great. A productivity system is definitely a must to keep our days on track. Plus, who doesn’t love crossing things off a list? 🙂

  11. Kristen - www.togetheract.com says:

    Super post! Love the idea of a productivity system that helps identify the must do’s. After a massive brain-dump…my priorities tend to be lost in the mix. This method will definitely help! Thanks:-)

  12. I love all of these tips. I hav a lot of ideas but don’t write them down or do a lot of follow thru.

  13. These are great tips! I especially love the mind map one!! I used to do them so much in school, but completely forgot they even existed!!

    Chrissy x
    http://www.chrissylilly.com

  14. I am ALL about making dreams a reality via actionable goals so I really enjoyed this post! 😀

    xoxo

    Allison

    http://www.livelaughwonder.com

  15. I love this post. Thank you for writing! Definitely needed to read this today.

  16. Charlotte says:

    Thank you for these great tips! It had never crossed my mind to use a mind map in this way 😀

  17. Lindsay L. says:

    Hey Melyssa, Thank You for these great tips – I definitely needed to hear them, especially your first tip :”Just Pick Something”!

    Thanks again,

    Faithfully Me – Lindsay.

    http://www.faithfullyme.co.uk

  18. The first tip is SO ME. I blame my lack of monetizing at this point on the fact that I can’t pick something. I’m always thinking up new ideas so I feel like I’m running in circles. My #1 goal for 2016 is to STOP DOING THAT.

    I’m doing a brand + biz overhaul audit and after that’s complete… I’m just going to start getting things done. Thanks for all the great tips!!

  19. Tash Thomas says:

    This is SUCH a great post, i think you may have actually met me when you started writing the first point. That point is the sole reason have started writing a blog, as a way to channel my need to be creative with my inner tech geek. I am all about using vision boards as a way to try and keep myself motivated on a goal! I am currently writing a post about my own goals as a way to hold myself accountable….Scary! Thank you for the great tips!

  20. Thank you so much for giving me motivation Melyssa This post is awesome 🙂

  21. Vivian says:

    Hi Melyssa!

    I’ve been reading much of your content for some time now and only recently (like…right now) got the guts to post a comment. I loved the motivation I got from reading this straightforward post, specifically creating a productivity system. This is the biggest thing I’m working on as I get my brand new blog underway. Keep up the good work 🙂

  22. Ed Troxell says:

    Yes!!! Love this article! It has everything one needs in the right order ????????

    Creating mind maps and building your team are key! Like I always say, teamwork = success!

    Sharing this! Thank you!

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