
Hey hot stuff and happy Thursday! Awhile back, I shared a post with 30 Ways to Feel Like You Accomplished Something Today and people were all about it! I had a ton of fun writing that post and reading all of your comments, so in the same vein, I’m bringing you this post, with fun, quirky tips to help you be more positive today. Let’s jump right in, shall we?
1. Narrow down your to-do list. Yes, even Awesome Days have to-do lists from time to time! But that’s okay, because today, you’re pickin’ three things and that’s IT, girl! If I wrote out my entire to-do list, it would literally be 3-4 pages long on double-sided, college-ruled paper. YUCK, just looking at it will probably overwhelm me into watching TV or doing something totally NOT on my to-do list. Cut the stress and just choose a handful of things you KNOW you can do in a day’s time. Little by little my friends. Little by little.
2. Actively appreciate the weather. If it’s sunny, go sit outside and let the warm rays beat down on your skin. If it’s rainy, leave your jacket at home and bask in the raindrops on your face. As much as we humans don’t like to admit it, we’re still a part of nature, and the natural world usually makes us feel pretty awesome.
3. Do you spend a lot of time alone or with others? Do the opposite! As an introvert, I revel in times I get to go places alone, work alone, and just be on my own. But that doesn’t mean I don’t LOVE a good hang out sesh with friends or a fun, themed party. If you find yourself often alone or with others, creep on out of that comfort zone and find something new to appreciate about another way to live.
Related: 6 Reasons Why You Should Do Things Alone
4. Have you ever heard of the website, Cute Overload? Now you have. You’re welcome.
5. Connect with cashiers. Does the same old lady ring up your produce at the grocery store each week? Do you always run into that same teenager at Chipotle who gives you extra guac? Do you know their names? Ask how they’re doing. Say hi! Isn’t it weird that we can see the same people every single day and not know a thing about them? Change that.
Related: 3 Simple Tips to Help You Become More Charismatic
6. FLOSS! Doesn’t flossing just make you feel like you have your crap together?
7. Eat something bad. Feel good. It makes me feel kind of sad when I see women shame themselves for eating something they “shouldn’t.” Yes, eating healthy is important, but if you’re going to eat that piece of cake anyways, you might as well feel good about it, right? Today, I encourage you to eat something a little bad for you, and if you feel your mind start to say, “there goes yesterday’s salad!” then stop and bask in the deliciousness of your treat. Then move on.
8. Make an action plan. Got a goal or idea that’s been hovering around your brain for ages? It sits there, lookin’ pretty, but doesn’t have much to say for itself, right? Make an action plan, or a list of clear, small steps that will help your idea come to fruition. Trust me, seeing the possibility in your major goals is a total DAY MAKER, y’all!
Related: 5 Actionable Steps You Can Take Towards Making Your Dreams a Reality
9. Be a silly weirdo head. Dance on your way to the kitchen. Sing show tunes in the shower. Tap dance with your dog. Just let out your quirky, silly self in any way you can. Hint: If you want to have an even more awesome day, be a silly weirdo head with other people.
10. Play with your pet. You know, that whiny furball that watches you while you pee, but you still seem to love like your first-born. (I hope that’s not just me). But on the REAL, yo, pets make us feel good, reduce stress, and even benefit our health.
11. Try something new. Ever wanted to go rafting, attempt a Pinterest craft project, or start a blog? Well, now’s your chance, sista! Try something new and feel the wonderful power of LEARNING! It doesn’t have to take all day, just think of something you kinda sorta have been thinking of doing…and then do it! I recently got into Skillshare and have been l-o-v-i-n-g it!
12. Send a gratitude letter to someone. Do you know how many studies there are that show that expressing gratitude can make you happy?! Like a zillion. Write a letter to a friend, co-worker, whoever, and tell them why you appreciate them. You’ll feel great and, hey, so will they.
Related: 8 Ways to Practice Gratitude
13. Surround yourself with people who encourage you. Save the nay-sayers for your less-than-awesome days (or not at all). Today, you get to be around the BEST of the best — the people who make your spirit come alive and your creative juices burst. Even Skyping or using a plain ol’ phone to connect with your spirit-enhancing friends should do the trick.
Related: Public Service Announcement: You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Everyone
14. Eat something that reminds you of good times. I bet most of you have a food that is exploding with happy memories. For me, that food is mac and cheese. My grandma always used to make it for me and my BFF in high school and I would always eat it together, too! I don’t even really like mac and cheese, but eating it makes me smile.
15. Be here. It’s easy-peasy to get caught up in the past or future. But those moments don’t exist right now, so we might do a little better and appreciate a little more if we can feel happy, blissful, and content with where we’re at, right here, right now.
16. Read the Good News section on the Huffington Post. Yep, they have a section dedicated ONLY to happy, awesome news, sure to add some sunshine to your day!
17. RELAX! Yeah, yeah you hear this all the time, but how often do you really do it? Today, draw yourself a warm bubble bath, put on a face mask, or just take a freakin’ nap.
Related: 6 Things to Do During Downtime to Help You Fully Recharge
18. Do something that kind of scares you. I say “kind of” because I’m pretty sure doing something that totally freaks you out is not on your Awesome Day agenda. But small scary things can be empowering! As a graphic designer, I’ve noticed that a LOT of my clients come to me saying, “I’m not sure if I’ll need a social media button for a Facebook page…I’m too nervous to make one.” I’ve BEEN there! I don’t know what it is about Facebook Pages, but making one for my blog made me feel like I was begging for attention or something. But you know what? IT’S ALL GOOD! Oftentimes, our fears only exist because we let them exist. Find something that intimidates you and CONQUER IT!
19. Smile at strangers. Because doesn’t it just rock your world when they smile back at you?
20. Unplug, at least a little. If you can, turn off your electronics all day and live off the grid. If not, set specific, short times that you’ll allow yourself to use electronics today. Instead of looking at your cell phone every 23 seconds, wondering if you got a text, just check it every 5 hours. Promise, your text will still be there, but you won’t have to feel like a slave to a 5-inch hunk of metal.
Related: Why I Turn My Cell Phone Off During the Day (And You Should, Too!)
21. Look good. Whatever that means for you. Make your appearance something that makes you feel motivated to do your best today.
22. Go for a walk. I like to pop in my headphones for times like these and pretend like I’m in a music video or commercial. Makes me feel awesome every time!
23. Write a love letter…to yourself. Be as sappy as you want, Casanova. Express how utterly awesome you are and soak up every word. Fold it up and stuff it into your undies drawer for future reading.
24. Pick ONE way to be super healthy today. I am in awe of people who have their diet and exercise together. Can I tell you a secret (or ten)? I don’t know what Paleo or gluten-free diets are. I have no clue what Barre is and there are so many types of yoga that conversations about yoga immediately make me feel stupid. My version of healthy is buying things that are green — which sort of works, but is still pretty naive. So I challenge you — pick ONE area of being healthy today and do the damn thing! Take a zumba class, make a green smoothie, whatever it takes to make your body feel a little more happy.
25. Go to bed early. You know all that junk about getting enough sleep that you’ve been hearing since you were in the womb? It’s not junk — it’s freaking science! When we let our bodies rest and replenish themselves, we start our day at 100 HP instead of 70. Pokemon fans, can ya feel me?















Seriously – I’m full on ready to have an AWESOME day!! Thanks for this pick-me-upper to start my day, Mel! And you’re SO right – flossing just makes me feel overall awesome! 🙂
YAY! You go on and HAVE that awesome day, girl! 🙂
What a great list! I definitely want to start incorporating more of these into my day 🙂 thanks!
YAY! I hope you do! 🙂
I love this list! Definitely jotting some of these down for a rainy day 🙂
WOOHOO! I’m glad you like them! 🙂
Love this list! The to do list suggestion is great — if I looked at my full to do list every day, I would never get anything done! It’s too overwhelming.
I’ll refer back to this list when I need a bit more “awesome” in my day 🙂
Yay!! I’m glad you like it! And the to-do list one is definitely a learned lesson…I’d rather poke myself with needles than stare at my full to do list
I love this list! And yes, Cuteness Overload is one of my go-to websites when I need a breather or a smile. 🙂
Yay! Isn’t it the best? 🙂
This is a fantastic list! BuzzFeed is another site I go to when I want an easy read that makes me laugh. 🙂
I’m glad you like it! And I frequent BuzzFeed for pick-me-ups too 🙂
I love this list, especially the part about not writing out an /entire/ to-do list – otherwise, what would you actually do!?
haha I know right?! Keep that thing away from me!
I love these ideas and going to bed early is something I need to do much more! Everyone needs Cute Overload in their life 🙂 🙂
Thanks Helen! And I agree — the world would be a happier place 🙂
Just what I needed today 🙂 I’m going to hang this list somewhere close by so I get reminded by it. I always go for a walk at lunch, just to clear my head and feel a little normal again. And music does the trick everytime, just some singing and dance and my day is 100% better!
have an awesome day!
I’m glad you enjoyed this! 🙂 And YES! Singing and dancing and solitary walks do miracles. 🙂
I feel ya! I got enough sleep last night, and I feel more energized today. Today, I will eat healthy by eating tilapia. Also, thank you for the feature! It’s so awesome!
That’s wonderful to hear! It’s always nice when you can FEEL the changes of being healthy, right? And YAY for your awesome gratitude answer!
This is a perfect awesome day list! 🙂
YAY! Glad you like it 🙂
FYI – I have bookmarked this list. And I also sent it around to my gal pals at work. So great and inspiring. Anything awesome, I am in to!! Thanks for writing this!
WOOHOO! That makes me all kinds of excited. 🙂 Thanks for sharing!
Yes!!! I need to start doing so many of these things. Especially make an action plan (I am a true believer in having lists for EVERYTHING) and relax! I’m always stressed because I overthink EVERYTHING!
Oh Tiffany, I’m with you! I LOVE lists and planning things and I also need to work on relaxing and taking it easy more! Thanks for reading. 🙂
No 16 is on my daily list every single night. I love to fall asleep happy so I head on to my Huffpost app and read the good news. No bad dreams 🙂
That’s such an awesome idea! I also check twitter or something lame before bed, but that is a WAY better idea!! Need to try it 🙂
No.26 Read this post!
I love this list. My problem is I want to do all of them at the same time! So I’m going to have to pick a couple and just chill out. I’m just going to rock on over to the 30 ways to feel awesome and them my day is sorted!
You’re awesome, Anna! Glad you like these 🙂
Just reading this post has me thinking positively about tkday! I’ll definitely be bookmarking this post for future reference. Have an awesome weekend!
That makes me so happy! Glad you like ’em, Monica! 🙂 Have a great weekend yourself!!
Wow didn’t know until just right now that there is a section dedicated just to good news in the Huffington Post?! More newspapers need to do this. And love your list, esp. #7 🙂
I know right! Such an awesome idea and makes me love the Huffington Post even more 🙂 And yay for #7! I certainly do it a lot 😉
LOVE this!! Would it be weird if I printed and framed these tips? Great job Melyssa!!!
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Heck NO it wouldn’t be weird! In fact, it would make me totally happy. 🙂
I ABSOLUTELY love this!
Thank you Rachael!! 🙂
I love this!
Thank you! 🙂
This is SO good. I’m going to be a weirdo head today! x
DO it, Fayann! 🙂
I love this post, too! Thanks for the ideas. 🙂 I have done some of these myself, and thought I was the only one. Yay!
Aw yay, I’m glad to hear that! 🙂