I recently attended a meetup alongside some stellar creative entrepreneur-type ladies. We were going around answering the question, “What are you working on right now?” Of course, most of us rattled off all of the projects that we’ve had in our heads, our lofty dreams and schemes for our businesses. But one woman answered the question a bit differently: “Honestly,” she said, “I’m just focusing on making my bed every morning.”

I loved this answer because, for me at least, it provided some much needed perspective on how out-of-whack my priorities can be sometimes. If you’re anything like me, then you know how easy it is to dismiss the simple needs of life by getting caught up in the thrill of pursuing your passions. In fact, some of us might even hold a certain romance for the idea of creative chaos. Messy desks, sleepless nights, skipped meals – in many ways we regard these types of stress as badges of honor.
But while disorder and stress are certainly an indicator of busyness, they’re also the fastest track to total creative burnout. The reality is this: to create something worthwhile, you have to start by creating a sustainable life for yourself. In other words, those who make the biggest impact in this world are those who commit themselves to practicing self-care and reducing stress.
We all go through seasons of life where our basic needs seem to fall by the wayside. Still, no matter how busy, stressed, or successful you are, there is always room to give yourself the attention you deserve. Want to know what you can do to be kinder to yourself right now and feel less stressed? Start here:
Develop morning/nightly routines
If you have kids, you know what an epic event bedtime can be. It involves a specific order of operations: take bath, put on pajamas, brush hair, brush teeth, get in bed, tuck in, read story, big kiss, lights out. We provide this routine for kids because it gives them a sense of structure, making them feel safe. And the same is true for bigger kids (i.e. adults). Especially for those whose lives are on the unpredictable side, we need daily habits that we can depend on. Think about what you do when you wake up and what you do before you fall asleep. Are these structured events or do they regularly change? Find a routine that works for you, and commit to sticking to it.
Related: My Typical Routine as a Blogger + Business Owner
Don’t skimp on sleep
Have you ever left a computer running for way too long to the point where it just crashes? Well, despite some obvious physical differences, it’s important to remember that we are all basically computers. Without rest, we break down. And while we’ve often heard that sleep affects our productivity, recent studies also suggest that prolonged wakefulness threatens our innovation (that is, our ability to create and come up with brilliant new ideas). This means that if you are cutting corners in your sleep cycle, you aren’t doing yourself OR your business any favors.
Related: 6 Things to Do During Downtime to Help You Fully Recharge
Keep necessities stocked
Shampoo, coffee, dish soap, granola, eye cream – whatever you need to feel like a human being, make sure you have it on hand. It sounds simple enough, but in the midst of a busy season, there is nothing worse than being without the essentials. If you tend to be particularly forgetful, try subscribing to your favorite items on Amazon to have them regularly delivered to your door. I mean, hello, you subscribe to podcasts and newsletters; maybe it’s time to subscribe to your preferred brand of toilet paper.
Be kind to your body
When life is hectic, we tend to make decisions based on convenience. For many us, this leads to fast food dinners and missed workouts. But in times of stress, your body needs the good stuff more than ever. Be deliberate about getting those fruits, veggies, and proteins into your system. In fact, make healthy foods a convenient option by stocking up every week on all of your favorites. Can’t make it to the grocery store? Sites such as Blue Apron will deliver the ingredients for wholesome and delicious meals right to your door.
Related: 6 Healthy Living Tips for Busy People
Declutter
Your office, your studio, your garage, your email inbox – whatever space in your life is causing you stress, now is the time clear it out. These mess-riddled areas are basically physical metaphors for your frazzled brain, so trust me, you will feel so much better once they are organized.
Related: The One Minute Rule: How to Declutter Your Life in 60 Seconds
Have an outlet
If you are building a business, you are in the fortunate position of getting to do the thing you love. All. The. Time. Yay! But sometimes this can be a challenge, especially if the thing you love was once your go-to hobby. Now your hobby is work and work is your hobby and it’s all very confusing. That being said, find something that helps you decompress, something totally separate from your daily grind. For me, I love to go on walks and explore new places in my neighborhood.
Breathe
This is one of the quickest, easiest things you can do to care for yourself. Focused abdominal breathing not only relaxes your overworked mind, but the increased oxygen improves your energy and focus which, of course, means better ideas and decisions all around. For some help in this department, try a guided breathing app such as Breathe2Relax.
Related: 5 Ways to Feel Better Today (Plus our fav breathing exercise!)
Schedule everything
All of the aforementioned ideas – your morning routine, exercise, hobbies, even breathing – write these items down in your planner. Treat them with the same level of importance that you would a business meeting. Carve out actual time in your day for these activities and resist the urge to replace them with work. You will want to, I promise.
Related: 5 Ways to Keep Your Blog Life Organized
Macro-Dream, Micro-Accomplish
Your ambitions should be big, so big that they scare you a little. But your small daily accomplishments – things like making your bed, completing a workout, clearing out your inbox, cooking yourself dinner – these are the things that will help you tackle your dreams with confidence. Take care of yourself by remembering that the little things you do today are just as vital as the big things you will do tomorrow.
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So much good stuff here. I feel like you wrote it for me. I work full time plus workout, blog and my blog has taken off. I have many projects but I feel overwhelmed and chaotic. Thanks for the great tips.
This is excellent! As a full-time blogger, full-time tech writer, and new entrepreneur this is such essential advice right now. I easily work 80+ hours per week between my 3 ventures but I’m counting my blessings and reminding myself how fortunate I am to be at a place in my life where I’m able to devote so much time to my passions.
With the million things that I NEED to get done right now, this post came right on time! thank you so much!
These are really great tips! Breathing, sleeping enough, and having an outlet are my favorites. Also focusing on one thing at a time helps me not feel chaotic. I tend to do lots of things all at once, but then everything takes more time to do and I feel less organized. Zeroing in on one task at a time clears my head and is more time efficient.
xx Lane
I’ve heard some many good things about blue apron! I can’t wait to try them. I also totally get the importance of giving life some structure. Stopping to actually make my bed really does make my day calmer. Great tips!
xx, http://gymbagsandjetlags.com
I can’t personally vouch for Blue Apron but I’ve used similar services before and they save SO MUCH TIME, it’s awesome! Well worth paying the money to get good quality, too 🙂
xx Anastasia Amour
Great tips here! It can definitely be hard to take time for yourself as an entrepreneur and it’s something that I struggle with on occasion as well. My favorite way to decompress is knitting & Netflix. When I feel overwhelmed I’ll take a 1 hour knitting and Netflix break… often I get back to work with more energy and creativity than I had before. Thanks for this post 🙂
I love doing this, too! The combination of doing something soothing with your hands while engaging with a TV show is so rejuvenating.
Not skimping on sleep is a big one for me!
These are such great tips! Trying to maintain healthy habits is definitely a big struggle for me when I’m feeling overwhelmed. Lately, I’ve been making a conscious effort to replace many of my daily coffees and Diet Cokes with water. It has been a bit of a challenge, but it really makes me feel better!
So many good tips! Sleep and routine are so important!
Kristi | Be Loverly
Gosh, I SO needed this. I especially love the way you phrased “Maco-Dream, Micro-Accomplish.” It’s important to celebrate our small victories and know that they’re bringing us one step closer to our biggest goals and dreams. Thanks for all the great tips <3
I desperately needed this today – I’ve been stressed all week and haven’t been able to but my finger on why, but it all feels so clear now! I’ve got crap all over my desk, my sleep has been taking a back seat as I worry about client emails in my head and my schedule has been all over the place… no wonder I haven’t been feelin’ it this week!
Thank you!
xx Anastasia Amour
Love that last point! It’s a great reminder that goals don’t have to be one or the other 🙂 -Audrey | Brunch at Audrey’s
What a perfectly-timed post! I’m fresh off almost two weeks of doing absolutely nothing, due to being burned out. I feel like this was written for me 😉
I’m making a conscious effort to now take some time for self care EVERY DAY, whether it’s 2 minutes of deep breathing, 5 minutes longer to enjoy my morning coffee, or an hour laying by the pool
I love that idea of Macro-dream, Micro-accomplish! I think this is something I should keep in mind for the future 😀 x
Great tips! I have been trying to pin down my morning and night routines to give my days some structure, and also allowing myself some lull times!
xx Jia, honeyandgazelle.wordpress.com
I really needed this this morning. These are all things I need to start doing in my own life, even though I am not an entrepreneur. I am trying to balance a full-time job with full-time graduate school, and I would still love to get another blog up and going. I miss blogging so much. However, after reading this list, I feel like a stress-free life is more time consuming then it should be.
Does anyone else get caught in the super stressful cycle of working your ass off for weeks at a time and then completely burning out/shutting down for a few days. Repeat. I’ve been doing it for about two years. It’s awful! Clearly I need an outlet like you said. These are great tips. I really like the “macro-dream, micro-accomplish” mantra.
Danielle | D is for Dreamer
Yessss I couldn’t agree more with all of these tips! “Have an outlet” is something I’m working on, but have found is necessary. Lovely post! 😀
xoxo
Allison
http://www.wonderlass.com
Great tips here, and every helpful!
Ha! You are so right! Last week end I slept at 3am because I was excited about blogging. I did that for three straight nights and I got sick. Today, still sick, I only ate four pastels (round buns with filling) for the whole day. My room is such a mess. My clothes are everywhere and don’t get me started about the trash. Ha! Ok. I know I’m embarrassing myself but it’s so true. And the first step to helping myself is to admit that I’m doing it. I so need these tips. Thanks for sharing, Christy. Going to clean up my room now. Ha!
Stay awesome,
Heide
My go-to motto is if your dreams don’t scare you they’re not big enough! I remember it anytime I start feeling overwhelmed with my business and where to take it next!
Love this! I love having painting days just to let my creativity flow and now feel the pressure. Thanks for this list
http://www.explorercreative.com/
Brilliant. Especially love the macro-dream, micro-accomplish bit!
http://herlovelyheart.com
So happy you enjoyed this post, Marianne! 🙂
I doodle with watercolours. So relaxing, and if anything turns out pretty I make it into a little card to write a thank you note to a client.
That’s the most awesome way to relax ever! I love it 🙂 Thanks for sharing, Claire!
Before 9am and after 9pm I unplug away from the computer. I find it best if i don’t automatically start my day in front of a screen. I am more refreshed and focused. Plus I love brainstorming in the morning or doing a creative ritual such as writing/drawing 🙂
That’s an awesome way to reduce stress! Thanks for sharing that tip with us, Ash 🙂
I’ve only been doing this for a month, so honestly, I haven’t figured out how to reduce stress in this world yet. I still feel like if I’m not working, I’m slacking off, if I’m not doing SOMETHING, recording a video while drinking my coffee, designing a motivational poster for Pinterest or Instagram, checking my analytics, just something – I feel like I’m not working hard enough and I’m going to fail. I definitely need to work on this, or I’m going to burn out!
It’s great that you’re aware of what you are and are not doing so that you can address it. Best of luck figuring out what works best for you, Keri. Please keep me posted on your progress. 🙂
Love this! I don’t usually post or subscribe to sites like these, but you’ve got me hooked! Macro-Dream, Micro-Achieve, my new tagline 🙂
Woohoo! Welcome to the community, Fabiana! I’m so glad the content has been helpful for you. 🙂